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Bullied I/T Coordinator

I am the I/T (Computer) Coordinator at my work. My former boss retired leaving me the only strictly computer employee at my office. The company execs, who became my supervisors, we very computer illiterate. Since, they were unable to "boss" me, they assigned me four bosses, with much less computer skill than I. All this was done without my knowledge. These "bosses" quickly became very hateful towards me and began to lie and mis-represent about me to the top bosses. To make matters worse, this company is gradually going out of business, so they have been slowly laying people off. So everyone is fearful of losing their jobs. Therefore, people trying to get other people fired is a reality.

There have been numerous episodes that have occurred, that I was wrongfully made the villain. At the same time, because of this, I began to develop a very bad work record, all based on the lies and misrepresentations that I have mentioned. Therefore, it has become very difficult for me to find another job. Not to mention that most of the things I do, it would be difficult to find someone else to do. I have been up for job after job, in which my employer gave me a bad reference and I did not get. So I am stuck in my situation.

This is a very stressful situation for me and has gone on for years. I have reached the point that I am angry all the time and it has severely affected my family and friendship. Likely, I cannot sue, because my work has more money to fight me than I do them and they can get people, who fear for their jobs to testify for them. Also, I have been turned down by several lawyers. They are ruining me! Every other attempt I have made has backfired miserably.

I do not want to give my name or address because if my employers find out about this somehow they will undoubtedly retaliate against me, as they have in the past.

Somebody please help me!!


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Breathe
by: Anonymous

I do understand where your coming from as I am a victim of workplace bullying. For 3 years I have suffered Anxiety, depression, and PSTD from being broken down by 5 co-workers who have caused this and continue to work and live their life like it's no big deal. Do not give up as there is help out there and someone will take your case as someone has taken my case after me suffering for the last 3 years and trying to cope with what these others have done to me to destroy my life. My advice to you is to keep a record of everything your going through and write everything done how this has effected your life and if you can prove that they have cause you some type of harm in anyway then I am sure a lawyer will take your case and help you as this is wrong and people need to stop pulling others down for their own needs etc. I hope things work out ok for you and you keep your head up as I truly know how you feel and by experience things like this never go away as I still today think and try and cope with the stress others have caused on me and try and workout ways how to cope everyday in life. Best wishes and good luck and I hope all goes well for you.

Thank you
by: Anonymous

My sincerest thanks for your help, in what is a horrible situation for me.

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